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Friday, August 19, 2011
From the Mind of a Guy: I hate Men
I hate men. I really do. The reason Why I hate men is simple: Everything has to be a competition. Everything has to be sports, or girls, or sex, or strength. Which is why I find it a whole lot easier to talk to girls. They are more accepting of the fact that most of those things do not interest me. Yeah, alot of girls don't like video games, and that is what I really like. But, i try to not talk about that stuff. I try to find common interests. Music, comedians, books, movies. Those things. T.V not so much. I don't watch it all that much. But, it seems to me, that Girls have more appreciation for what counts, for personality, more than just looks or interests. And that is why I like girls a whole lot more than guys. And why I respect girls a lot more than guys.
From the Mind of a Guy: Romance
You know something that drives me crazy? Articles on Romance. At least most of them, and at least the ones that are more "modern". Why? Because I have read five by different people, and all it was was basically a guide for guys to "get into her pants". That's crazy. Romance is supposed to mean love, and love is supposed to be an Emotion. Not a feeling. Not only something physical. But that's not how guys see it any more, no. They see it as a way to get sex. And that it why the male stereotype is "All they think about is Sex". Romance to me is a way to connect to your Girlfriend, or your Boyfriend, or your spouse. Or, if none of those apply to you, then to GET a girlfriend or boyfriend. I know for me, it doesn't work too well. Never had a Date. Don't see one in the near future. But, I can be Romantic if I wanted to. I sometimes am, to the girls I like. But, that isn't the point. The point is, Guys, don't use Romance as a chance for Sex. And Girls, keep an eye out.
Monday, August 15, 2011
From The Mind of a Guy: The Forbidden Word, and Taboo Acts
This is the beginning of a new series. Just so y'all know before hand, this is from an American's P.O.V.
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Here is one thing that sorta drives me crazy. You look at a group of friends and they are all girls. Every so often you will hear "Oh that's so funny!" or something like that, followed by "I love you!". And then they Hug. With guys, this is a little different. Yeah, we love our friends just like girls, or at least I do, but, it is Forbidden to say so. Even to a girl, when it's from a guy, it usually means more than just a friend. However, girls also usually don't say I love you to a guy, so....And hugs between guys are strictly taboo, with the exception of family. There is the Guy Hug, or Man Hug as well, of course, which is just a overly dramatic pat on the back. Never should last for more than two seconds. It is also taboo to put your arms around each others shoulders, unless you are helping him to the clinic or hospital or something like that. Girls I see it a lot. Same with girls sitting on each others laps, guys can't do that. Just some things to think on. But, also what I am saying is this: If you are a girl, and are good friends with a guy, know that he does love your friendship, he just can't say it. Its in the Handbook. See: The Official Man Handbook: Part 1 And Part 2.
Cheers.
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Here is one thing that sorta drives me crazy. You look at a group of friends and they are all girls. Every so often you will hear "Oh that's so funny!" or something like that, followed by "I love you!". And then they Hug. With guys, this is a little different. Yeah, we love our friends just like girls, or at least I do, but, it is Forbidden to say so. Even to a girl, when it's from a guy, it usually means more than just a friend. However, girls also usually don't say I love you to a guy, so....And hugs between guys are strictly taboo, with the exception of family. There is the Guy Hug, or Man Hug as well, of course, which is just a overly dramatic pat on the back. Never should last for more than two seconds. It is also taboo to put your arms around each others shoulders, unless you are helping him to the clinic or hospital or something like that. Girls I see it a lot. Same with girls sitting on each others laps, guys can't do that. Just some things to think on. But, also what I am saying is this: If you are a girl, and are good friends with a guy, know that he does love your friendship, he just can't say it. Its in the Handbook. See: The Official Man Handbook: Part 1 And Part 2.
Cheers.
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